Current Mood: 

- The kids started marching camp for band yesterday. This is Luke's 3rd year, but Autumn's 1st. Luke is SECTION LEADER this year, so he's really excited about that. I know Autumn was nervous. Mom texted my sister yesterday, asking how their first day of camp went but my sister didn't reply.
I hope they take extra precautions with those kids this summer. This drought is bad enough - (I heard on tv that Houston needs 20-25 inches of rain to get back to normal) - but today the temperature in Austin is supposed to be anywhere between 106 and 109. Who knows what the heat index is. I would wish them rain, but my nephew says that makes it feel worse because with the rain comes all the humidity.
The heat index here is 110, so I'll be hiding indoors. Still, it really could be worse. I'll take the dry heat or humidity any day.
- Watched The Bachelorette 7 finale last night. (Once again I would have forgotten about it if not for dvr). I wasn't surprised by the person she picked. I've said it before, and I'll say it again: She seems to be a bad judge of character.
I liked Ben a heck of a lot more than JP. Well, I don't even like JP. There's something very off putting about him. I do not see this pairing lasting.
Ben looked dejected and so hurt, even after seeing Ashley for the first time after she dumped him.
And how HORRIBLE was she for letting the man get down on one knee and propose when she knew she was dumping him?! That really ticked me off. That was just wrong on so many levels.
I thought Ben handled himself well. He had every right to be upset and angry. This woman led him down the garden path, and he was humiliated I'm sure. I give him props though because he didn't beg or grovel, and he didn't lose his temper or curse at her. He left wounded, but as he said... with dignity.
I think her dumping him was a blessing. I don't think he sees that yet himself. Silly, silly man.
I bet his sister feels really bad now, considering she's the one that signed him up for the show. And oh jeez, I felt so sorry for him when he mentioned the loooong flight home with several stops, and he had to go to his best friends WEDDING.... Ouch!
Well, I can't feel too sorry for him. No one forced him to join this circus of a show.
And it IS a circus. It isn't normal to be locking lips and making out with one guy when THE VERY NEXT DAY you're engaged to someone else. I'm sorry, but if you're snogging and flirting having a mud bath with one man one day, and the next you're professing undying love to another... err, I don't think their definition of love is the same as mine. How can they BELIEVE that?! Are they living in some parallel universe?
And then this girl doesn't even answer Ben's question on the after special. He asked her when she knew JP was the one, but she evaded his question.
I guess I don't blame her, but he has a point and he does deserve an honest answer same as she deserved to know about Bentley the douche bag. His question and her silence only proves how cruel of a show this is.
But again, no one threatened to pull their arms out of their sockets if they didn't sign up for the show.
Oh boy, do I get a bad vibe with this JP. I can't help it. He feels 'off' to me. I don't like him at all. He's too controlling and possessive, and he barely knows this girl.
And OF COURSE the passion/honeymoon phase is still there. They've all been on vacation for weeks now. Once they get back to reality, that honeymoon will be a memory.
I really hope Ben doesn't become the next Bachelor or join another one of these childish, unrealistic reality shows. I'll be disappointed if he does.
All I know is that I will never again watch another one of these shows. I'm not gonna be suckered a second time.
Okay, so if Mickey is the next Bachelor I might watch. Lol! He's great eye candy.
I don't know about his personality though. He seems pretty arrogant and know-it-all and holier than thou. I could be way off base there, but that's the vibe I've received. I did miss 2 or 3 of these episodes, so he might have been on a date with her that I missed. Maybe I'm mistaking confidence for arrogance? Either way, he's nice to look at.